Showing posts with label charlotte mason. Show all posts
Showing posts with label charlotte mason. Show all posts

10 March 2010

Creative Writing

Although her perfectionist tendencies tend to make her stress on the front-end of any assignment, nine-year-old Kathryn is actually quite good at things like creative writing. Her story from last week made me giggle, so I thought I'd share with you. This was inspired by assignment #5 in The Write Stuff Adventure by Dean Rea.

A few things to note in your reading: the "big black thing" at the beginning of the story was based on a day Ken photographed a spider. All spelling and punctuation is exactly as Kathryn wrote it, and no, we have never never studied proper punctuation usage; her knowledge is simply based on Charlotte Mason's ideas of learning things like grammar and punctuation naturally through the reading of good literature.
Once, there was a spider named Sam. He was a house spider, but one day a huge black thing came, made weird noises, and then took poor Sam outside. It had just snowed, and Sam was very cold. He had never been so cold in his life. He remembered a song his mom sang when Sam was a baby called "The Itsy-Bitsy Spider." It was a song about his great-great-great grandfather and his life. So Sam made that his theme song for his life. Sam headed for the nearest leaf, and when he got there, he started to work on his book again. He was writing a novel called, "A Spider's Life." This story was about a spider named Fred, a ball of yarn, a girl spider named Angel, and a spoon. Sam was an educated spider, and he loved to write, so he always had a pencil, pen, pencil sharpener, and two or three dollars to buy more pencils or paper. Safe from the snow still falling, Sam soon fell asleep. The next morning, the snow was gone, and it was sunny, so Sam crawled out from under his leaf, made his way back to the house, got inside, and was reunited with his family, and there he lives today.
Did the part about the spoon make you giggle? {grin}

(This story also reinforces my idea that unless you squish the critter, it'll end up back in the house eventually! Ken is kinder to insects than I am.)

15 December 2009

Charlotte Mason Blog Carnival: December 15th Edition

Welcome!
I'm delighted you've joined us for the today's edition of the Charlotte Mason Blog Carnival! I hope you are able to take a bit of a break from what is most likely a very busy time of year and enjoy a little leisurely blog-reading...



LIVING BOOKS, NARRATION...
"Our business is to give him mind-stuff, and both quality and quantity are essential. Naturally, each of us possesses this mind-stuff only in limited measure, but we know where to procure it; for the best thought the world possesses is stored in books; we must open books to children, the best books; our own concern is abundant provision and orderly serving." -Charlotte Mason

Brenda at The Tie That Binds Us gives some great ideas for dictation in her post Using dictation as a grammar lesson.

Richele presents Developing a Taste for Living Books posted at Under the Golden Apple Tree.

What fun! I want to sit in with Jeanne at A peaceful day as she and her family enjoy read-alouds in Again, with feeling. That Australian accent would just make it that much more entertaining for a Southern gal like me. {grin}



NATURE STUDY...
"We are all meant to be naturalists, each in his own degree, and it is inexcusable to live in a world so full of the marvels of plant and animal life and to care for none of these things." -Charlotte Mason

Naomi at Living Charlotte Mason in California had an experience that got her thinking. She shares these thoughts in  No more sticks....

Barb at Handbook of Nature Study says "I found a great source for some of Anna Botsford Comstock's nature study ideas and linked to it in this entry. I love it when something renews my passion for nature." Me, too! Read her post, Fresh Thoughts on Nature Study.




HANDICRAFTS and MUSIC...
"Again we know that the human hand hand is a wonderful and exquisite instrument to be used in a hundred movements exacting delicacy, direction and force; every such movement is a cause of joy as it leads to the pleasure of execution and the triumph of success. We begin to understand this and make some efforts to train the young in the deft handling of tools and the practice of handicrafts. Some day perhaps, we shall see apprenticeship to trades revived and good and beautiful work enforced." -Charlotte Mason

My 9-year-old daughter Kathryn shares a wintery handicraft and tells us How to Make Felt Ornaments at her blog FaithGirl.

I love Angie's definition of a handicraft: “Anything useful you can learn and use the rest of your life.” With that in mind, she presents Handicraft/Life Skills Spotlight and Challenge posted at TheOneThing.

What age is best for starting music study? Heather shares her thoughts in Year 0 Music posted at Maple Hill Academy.


MORE CM WISDOM...
"Children should be taught their duty toward God. It is their duty. That which they owe, to love Him 'with all their heart, with all their mind, with all their strength' these things are seldom taught as they should be." -Charlotte Mason

Michelle, a columnist for "Homeschooling Today" magazine, shares this article: History Backwards?

Barb shares more wisdom from Charlotte Mason, and some of her own reflections in "Life Should Be Full of Living" posted at Harmony Art Mom.

Sunny helps us get to know Charlotte Mason in Seeking? at Sunny Scholars. I love Sunny's  recommendations and heartily recommend them myself!

Just one final post; I'm sharing my own Notes from Jeannie Fulbright. Her words reminded me of these words by Charlotte Mason: "A child is a person in whom all possibilities are present - present now at this very moment - not to be educed after many years and efforts manifold on the part of the educator"




That's all, folks! Thanks so much for taking the time to peruse this edition. We would LOVE to have your article in the next edition of The Charlotte Mason Blog Carnival! Just use our handy-dandy carnival submission form! We'll see you next time at Beck's Bounty on January 5th.

Interested in hosting this carnival sometime? Email me!


04 November 2009

Homeschool Support Groups

Oftentimes, I think we as homeschool moms don't place much value on things like support groups. But they are SO important! My church has a great homeschool support group, and I'm so blessed by it. We have meetings once a month; the main focus is offering encouragement and reminding us why we do what we do. Occasionally, our meetings take the form of a couples' dinner, or a holiday party, but always include prayer and encouragement. Various members coordinate group field trips throughout the year for anyone who wants to participate. There are mentoring meetings, too, where more experienced homeschoolers share with newer homeschool moms needing guidance from others who have "been there and done that." Once a year, we have a homeschool moms' retreat. I went last year and was greatly blessed by it -- but this year I have conflicts with the chosen weekend, so I'll have to miss it.

Last night's monthly meeting blessed my socks off. Jeannie Fulbright was our speaker, and she shared exactly what I needed to hear. Isn't it neat how God does that? (I'll have a separate post on her specific message, but the point of this post is to emphasis the importance of support groups.)

Even back in Charlotte Mason's day, there were support groups for parents and teachers. (Karen Andreola's A Charlotte Mason Companion offers more about all this in chapter 47.) Charlotte's magazine Parents' Review provided a great deal of information. The groups became known as the Parents' National Education Union (PNEU), and local chapters popped up all over the United Kingdom, and helped start schools that used the CM method. Teachers for these schools were trained based on Charlotte's philosophy of teaching; this college was nicknamed "The House of the Holy Spirit." I love that, because doesn't that just sum up the essense of teaching our kids? We're to seek God's will for them, and dedicate ourselves to teaching them "in the way they should go." (Prov. 22:6)

I love what Karen Andreola says in regards to homeschool support groups:
I remind you that there is nothing so potent or powerful as a good idea. It is my intention for each mother to leave the meeting strengthened with an idea of Charlotte's clutched under her arm. A good homeschool can only run well on good ideas.
Really, this applies to all homeschoolers, not just those of us who love the CM philosophy. Last night's meeting was evidence of that. A good homeschool needs to run on good ideas, and good ideas often come in the form of encouragement from other homeschool moms -- and always (even if indirectly) from the Holy Spirit.

I strongly encourage you to find a support group in your area, but choose carefully. Look for one that meets your needs: do you want a group that has lots of events/field trips for the kids, or would you benefit more from the support/encouragement of other moms? You also want to make sure that their beliefs and homeschool philosophy match yours. Our group has a few CM'ers, but regardless of how we school, we all have the same basic beliefs and the same ultimate goal: to raise children that love the Lord. If you can't find a group that is a perfect fit, why not start your own? It doesn't have to be elaborate -- just a few like-minded homeschoolers sharing ideas and encouragment. Either way, you'll be blessed by it!

22 September 2009

Charlotte Mason Blog Carnival


Welcome to the Noah's Ark edition of the Charlotte Mason Blog Carnival. No, not really, but it's been raining for a solid week now, with lots of flooding in our area, and more rain is expected. So we're all evaluating our boat-making skills around here... guess I could make that into a very hands-on lesson. Let's see, that could cover nature study, we could narrate about it, we could learn useful handicraft skills, living math to figure out how to build it, maybe even some masterly inactivity as we float about on our newly built boat. {hee hee!}

Art Appreciation, Picture Study, and Handicrafts

Jimmie
shares her thoughts about Crafts and Hands-on Activities from a CM Perspective, posted at Jimmie's Collage. She points out that not all hands-on activities actually help learning, but why they do still have value.

I always love how Barb at Harmony Art Mom shares what she does. This simple explanation of how she started art appreciation in her family inspires me: Art Appreciation: A Starting Point.

More great ideas from Barb: Picture Study Tip: Using A Viewfinder.


Narration and Living Books

I enjoy Jimmie's creative ideas for making learning more fun. "If narrations are getting dull," she says, "try adding puppets for a twist." See her post, Puppets for Narration, at Heart of the Matter Online.

Jeanne gives us a great approach To Shakespeare... and some wonderful reasons why to take time to enjoy him! Posted at her lovely blog, A peaceful day.

Shannon at Mountaineer Country shares a reminder of why we love Charlotte Mason: Yes, I had a momentary lapse of judgement. (I think we have all had a few of those!) 

Not every child takes to narration naturally. Heather shares Narration with the not-natural narrator posted at her blog, Maple Hill Academy.


Nature Study

Kris at Weird, Unsocialized Homeschoolers is getting into doing more nature study. She didn't expect the whole family to love it so much, but they do! I'm so glad she shares some of their delight in her post, Nature Study: Mostly Mushrooms.

Today is the first official day of fall where I live, but spring has sprung at Homeschooling Kiwi Style.  Enjoy Rachael's post, Spring Nature Study in the Southern Hemisphere.

I often think exactly what Jill said here: "Isn't it amazing that this woman lived over 100 years ago and it seems as if she's telling us exactly what is needed for mothers today." Read more of her thoughts in Nature Study 2nd week/ Charlotte Mason lessons posted at Children in the Midst.

Our young friend Rachael shares her very first nature journal entry: Daffodils-and goings on-by Emily. Stop by and leave her a word of encouragement at her blog, Notebook for Girls. 


Living Math 

Maybe I have a hard time wrapping my brain around fun math because I never liked it myself. That's why I love posts like this one, shared by Heather at Maple Hill Academy.

Rhonda shares a fun day of math in Real/Living Math posted at Preparation Education. Anybody craving some zucchini bread after that? 

Simple, math, and game all in the same post. Gotta love it! Thanks to Mother Hen for sharing Simple Math Game.


Masterly Inactivity and General CM concepts

Keri
at Sunny Scholars shares about Masterly Inactivity. We all need a good dose of that, but it's often the first thing we neglect.

Lee Binz
at The HomeScholar Blog presents Our Charlotte Mason High School – or Maybe Not.

Katey
shares her schedule and resources in New School Year at Crazy Homeschool Mama.

Kelsey at Mud Puddles shares Adding to our Vacation, saying "Our recent family vacation was greatly enhanced by some pre-learning we did before we went, and the 'letting alone' I practiced while we were there." That's easier said than done for most of us, but ponder this CM quote:
"They must be let alone, left to themselves a great deal, to take in what they can of the beauty of earth and heaven."

Thanks so much for taking time to peruse these articles, and thanks to everyone who contributed to the carnival! I'm delighted that we had some brand new participants this time, and hope to see your blog article in the next edition of The Charlotte Mason Blog Carnival! It's easy to submit them; just use this form.


16 August 2009

CM & the Bereans

Reaping the Harvest

I'm still reading--and loving--a wonderful book by Diana Waring called Reaping the Harvest. (For the record, I love the prequel to this book as well!) The most recent chapter I've read is about the importance of becoming an independent thinker. You see, a real education should teach our children to think independently. Unfortunately, I think many of us--not just our kids--have fallen under the false impression that just because a person sounds knowledgable about something, they must have all the answers. Not true! We need to think more deeply, and test what we're being told/taught to see if it's in line with God's word. In other words, we should be like the Bereans, who "received the message with great eagerness and examined the Scriptures every day to see if what Paul said was true." (Acts 17:11)

I think this is right in line with Charlotte Mason's teachings! Like this quote from Volume 6, chapter 7 of the CM Series: "If [students] have learned to... think independently they are then fit to be trained for such life and profession as taste or necessity may dictate... such a man is able, not only to earn his living, but to live."

Or this one:
"We hold that the child's mind is no mere sac to hold ideas but is rather... a 'spiritual organism' with an appetite for all knowledge. This is its proper diet with which it is prepared to deal and what it is able to digest and assimilate as the body does food-stuffs."
She goes on to say, "A doctrine [that says the child's mind is an empty receptacle]... lays the stress of education upon the teacher. Children taught on this principle are in danger of receiving much teaching but little knowledge." I certainly want to make sure my children have true knowledge, not just a bunch of teaching that doesn't have any real value. This all goes back to the CM philosophy that education is an atmosphere, a discipline, a life! Lindsey is new to homeschooling, so she doesn't realize yet all the things we've already been doing that are "school" because we try to incorporate learning in our daily lives, not just for a certain set "school time."

Charlotte Mason believed "in ideas as the proper and only diet upon which children's minds grow..." and said that "the ideas required for the sustenance of children are to be found mainly in books of literary quality; given these the mind does for itself the sorting, arranging, selecting, rejecting, classifying."

I do love those living books! Such wonderful literature stimulates the mind with new ideas: perfect for teaching us to think more deeply! As wonderful as these wonderful living literature books are, there really is only one book that truly is alive: the Bible! I want to be sure to teach my children how to appreciate the Bible as a truly living book, and in doing so, they will become like the Bereans.

31 March 2009

Charlotte Mason Blog Carnival


Welcome! I'm happy to be hosting this edition of the Charlotte Mason Blog Carnival. I think this one is extra-special because today is my one-year blogiversary! I don't have any fabulous prizes to give away, but I do have a wonderful collection of encouraging articles and great ideas here!


Art & Music

"People tend to overlook the fact that the mind must have its food. We tend to think we should learn to know, rather than learning so we can grow [as persons]." Charlotte Mason
Barb at Harmony Art Mom gives us a healthy dose of food for our hungry minds in her post, "Classical Music....Brain Food." Just like fresh fruits & veggies, I do not get enough of this in my "diet" on a regular basis, but she's encouraged me to do so!

I love what Keri at Sunny is doing for "Art Enjoyment," because it's simple and relaxed.

Cindy at Our Journey Westward shares the wonderful resources she used in their recent artist study in her post, "Van Gogh Resources."

Nature Study

"We are all meant to be naturalists, each in his own degree, and it is inexcusable to live in a world so full of the marvels of plant and animal life and to care for none of these things." Charlotte Mason
Nature study doesn't have to be complicated or difficult, and most of all, it should be enjoyable for everybody involved. In "Come see how we study nature..." Brenda at The Tie That Binds Us shows just how lovely and relaxed it can be.

MomToCherubs at Adventures On Beck's Bounty shares a great nature study project: "The Great Sunflower Project." This is, as she points out, and opportunity for more than "just" nature study; she says it's also "science (bees, pollinators, soil, water, etc), botany (planting, growing, pollination, pollinators), math (counting, estimating) too. I love multi-purpose projects!" I do, too!

Barb at Handbook of Nature Study has come up with some new nature challanges for birds. She gives more details in "Outdoor Hour Challenge: Birds-Robin, Cardinal, and House Finch." We informally study our birds on a regular basis, so I am looking forward to doing more "official" bird studies, and I know we'll enjoy these!

Photogirl has been doing some wonderful nature studies, and shares them with us in "March nature calendar highlights." I want to incorporate some of her fun ideas in our own school days! Fortunately, she also shares a link to her upcoming schedule for April at her blog, Kids and Nature.

In "Charlotte Mason Discussion Group - Nature Study," Patti at Charlotte Mason In America shares the notes from the Charlotte Mason Discussion Group that occurs at her house each month. How fun is that?! Anybody want to come to my house for a CM discussion group next month? {smile} Patti will gladly send send you a free Owl Study notebooking page if you leave her a comment.

Character Training

"How are we to arrive at this trained and balanced character, which we all feel to be so needful, and know to be so rare? Let your home education aim at training character first and foremost." Charlotte Mason
In "Narrating by Character Qualities Provides Moral Fiber," Leslie at The Lionsgate School presents a creative way to incorporate character training into narration.

Richelle at Barefoot Voyage puts into practice Charlotte Mason's encouragement to "present the right idea at the right time" then practice "the art of standing aside." See how in her post, "A Good Measure."

Living Books & Narration

"But let them have tales of the imagination, scenes laid in other lands and other times, heroic adventures, hairbreadth escapes, delicious fairy tales in which they are never roughly pulled up by the impossible--even where all is impossible, and they know it, and yet believe.(vol 1 pg 152)." Charlotte Mason
I love reading, but I missed many of the classics in my own education. When choosing which version of A Pilgrim's Progress to read with Kathryn this year, I was a little overwhelmed because I'd never read any version. Jeanne at A peaceful day had just the opposite problem, and presents a wonderful synopsis of many versions in "Negotiating a trail through." Thanks to her recommendations, I'll know which version to tackle next & I think I'm motivated enough now to jump in and read the original!

Over at Ms. Julie's Place, Julie shares "Tall Tales- the unit study," full of great ideas and suggestions for study topics and books to use in a Tall Tales unit study.

Molly at Counter-cultural School presents some good things to consider when choosing what our children read in "Whatever is Admirable: The Classics."

I've been thinking lately about trying to incorporate living books into math, but I haven't come up with many great ideas. In "Free Science and Math Webinar April 1st," Kris at At Home Science tells us about an upcoming webinar on the topic of teaching math and science with living book. Sounds interesting!

Do you need yet another great reason to homeschool? Renae shares "Reason #127 to Homeschool" at her blog, Life Nurturing Education. She enjoys "stories crafted to communicate ideas of liberty, hope, and faith. Morsels I want to savor together as we read book after book…" I wholeheartedly agree!

Daily Wisdom & Mother Culture
"The thought of any of our poor words and ways being a daily influence on a child should make the best of us want to hold our breath." -Charlotte Mason
The quote above is one of my favorite and thought-provoking bits of Charlotte Mason wisdom. In "Charlotte Mason Monday," Shirley Ann at Dawn in the Home shares this quote, and more great encouragement for being the "thermostat" of our homes.

Charlotte Mason encouraged us moms to rejuvenate ourselves so that we have something to give back to our families. MasterpieceMom gives us some lovely and creative ideas for other ways to rejuvenate ourselves in "Mother Culture: Pampering the Body" posted at Masterpiece Theater.

I love the name of Kris' blog and still smile every time I see it: Weird, Unsocialized Homeschoolers. Despite how "unsocialized" they are, she shares the cooperative value of a family project in her post, "Family Fun."

In "Teaching Charlotte Mason One Day At A Time," Marie at Teaching Charlotte Mason One Day At A Time shares the joy of learning.

Dana gives us some things to ponder in "Homeschooling and learning things more deeply," posted at her blog, Principled Discovery.

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Well, I sure feel inspired after all that! How 'bout you? I hope you've enjoyed this edition, and we'd love to see your blog article in the April 14th edition, hosted by Kris at At Home Science.

28 February 2009

Life should be all living

I've been spending a little time with my friend Charlotte Mason again and she's reminded me of some things I needed to hear. Sometimes it's good to be reminded: learning really is a lifestyle! I think I get hung up on the "norm" because I was trained by the public school system, and I am surrounded by friends, family, neighbors, and even my stepson in public school. Even among homeschooling moms, the talk tends to veer into what curriculum we're using and things like that. All fine topics, and certainly something to put some thought into, but not the real point of education, and not what I want to be focused on.

Charlotte Mason said, "Life should be all living, and not merely a tedious passing of time; not all doing or all feeling or all thinking––the strain would be too great––but, all living; that is to say, we should be in touch wherever we go, whatever we hear, whatever we see, with some manner of vital interest..."
Ever experienced the tedious passing of time? Many times I've caught myself doing the same mundane things, and not paying a bit of attention to what I'm doing. Even driving to an often-traveled destination requires very little thought, and I catch myself on mental auto-pilot. Yes, of course I'm paying attention to things like other vehicles and traffic lights and such, but I'm not noticing the scenery or anything. I wonder how much I miss out on that way. Wouldn't it be great to really be living even at those mundane moments? Paying attention, and noticing the details of interest "wherever we go, whatever we hear, whatever we see"?

Charlotte explains, "the great work of education is to inspire children with vitalising ideas as to every relation of life, every department of knowledge, every subject of thought." She explains that God is "the supreme Educator of mankind" in all things, and goes on to encourage us with this: "in this great work [of education] we seek and assuredly find the co-operation of the Divine Spirit." No matter what curriculum we use, no matter what style of homeschooling we love, no matter how many hours we devote to education, we will never be able to teach our children absolutely everything they need to know. Those education gaps we all worry about sometimes? Oh, yes, they'll be there. But the really fabulous thing is that God himself will fill in those gaps because He is the supreme Educator!

We can't and shouldn't try to shape our kids into a mold of what we want them to become. Each one of us is created just a little differently, and we are instructed by God to train our children according to their unique bent, the unique way He made them. Isn't that one of the great things about homeschooling? We can completely individualize what we do for each child, and that will look different for every single family and every single child!

Charlotte also reminded me of the importance of relationships for a child, to both people and things. "In proportion to the range of living relationships we put in his way, will he have wide and vital interests, fulness of joy in living." Wide and vital interests, and fulness of joy in living are most certainly high on my list of hopes for my children as they grow up, and when they are adults. Because they are all unique, we can't predict what will spark their interests, and it won't necessarily be anything we ourselves are interested in! Charlotte reminds us to let our children live and learn from plenty of imaginative free play, preferably outdoors whenever possible. Encouraged to explore, even in their own backyard, they will develop relationships with trees and flowers and birds, and more. Kathryn has a tree just outside her bedroom that she calls "her tree", and a "climbing tree" she loves in the front yard. Our dog Lacy is a big part of Kathryn's life, and even if I hadn't already loved having a dog as a pet, I certainly see the value of Charlotte Mason's suggestion that every child have a pet of some kind to love and care for. I just read an article about a program called "Reading to Rover." The goal of the program is to motivate kids who have a difficult time reading by allowing them time to read to a therapy dog at a public library or school. The program has had great results, and I believe it's because of the relationship the kids develop with those patient canine pals.


"Education is an atmosphere, a discipline, a life." Every day is full of opportunities to learn, even if we never sit down for any tablework. We do need to model and teach good habits, because life will be so much more full (and less stressful) if they develop those good habits while still young. And we must let them feast upon great ideas, which Charlotte says is "the food upon which personality waxes strong." There are those great ideas again! Where do we get them? Great books! I still think of Kathryn pretending for weeks to be an Inuit girl with her doll Robyn zipped up in her jacket, and Lacy as a wolf she befriended -- all because of a great book we read together!

When I think about what I really want as my primary goal for education, do I want my child to have the highest test scores and earn straight A's though college? Do I want her to have a prestigious title with lots of letters after her name? Is my primary goal for her to be "successful" and well-paid? No, none of those things. While those are all fine and good, what I really want is for my children to be kind and empathetic; to love the Lord and follow Him; to be passionate about whatever they choose to do with their lives.
"The question is not, how much does the youth know? when he has finished his education, but how much does he care? and about how many orders of things does he care?" - Charlotte Mason
I want my children to care, and I want their lives to be all living. I'm glad Charlotte and I had this little chat; now I've just got to apply all that she's reminded me, because, of course, I'm still learning, too.

13 November 2008

A Happy Talent

"It is a happy talent to know how to play." Ralph Waldo Emersonplaying in leaves
About a year ago, we built a playset in the backyard. Honestly, we didn't know if Kathryn would actually use it because she never almost never played outside. She'd sometimes play outside at a friend's house, but she was never one of those kids who wanted to stay outdoors. Then Lacy joined our family, and running around with her is crazy fun, even for the adults in the family! Gradually Kathryn became more willing to play outside a little because there was a silly dog to accompany her, and a swing set on which to play. She still doesn't like playing outside in the hot summer, and I can't protest too much because I don't enjoy hot weather myself. Now that it feels wonderfully like fall, however, Kathryn and Lacy are spending more time outside. I think our nature studies have encouraged her in this, too, because they've gotten us outside more often, and have helped us learn to pay more attention to all the wonderful things to discover out in God's creation.

All that being said, I've been fighting with myself the past couple of weeks because I have been feeling like I need to get that School To-Do List checked off. There are projects and lessons that aren't getting done. But for the first time in Kathryn's life, I've had have to force her to come inside. As soon as she's dressed in the morning, she's begging to get outside and play. I've been watching her and Lacy run & jump; I've been suppressing my clean-freak tendencies when I see her wallowing in a pile of leaves; I've been laughing as Lacy uses her snout to bulldoze through a pile of leaves Kathryn has just raked, and as Kathryn leaps into the midst of the pile. I've been impressed that Kathryn has made her own broom out of pine needle bunches tied onto a stick using grass as twine, so she can sweep the fallen leaves out of her little playset house. I have suppressed giggles about all the stores of "food" she has gathered to store up for winter. But then that to-do list beckons again. Is this school? Is this valuable?

Charlotte Mason had this to say in regards to children's play:
"There is a little danger in these days of much educational effort that children's play should be crowded out, or, what is from our present point of view the same thing, should be prescribed for and arranged until there is no more freedom of choice about play than that about work."

I see so many kids who know all about video games and television and animated toys, but if all those were to disappear, I don't think they'd know what to do with themselves. In our home, our favorite toys are dolls, stuffed animals, and Legos. Books are Kathryn's favorite form of entertainment. The only TV that she usually watches is Alton Brown on Thursdays nights when she & Ken hang out upstairs while I host my Bible study group downstairs. (All part of my plan to get her excited about cooking so she can take over in a few years! Bwa ha ha!)

Charlotte Mason also said,
"Boys and girls must have time to invent episodes, carry on adventures, live heroic lives, lay sieges and carry forts, even if the fortress be an old armchair; and in these affairs the elders must neither meddle nor make. They [the elders] must be content to know that they do not understand, and, what is more, that they carry with them a chill breath of reality which sweeps away illusions."

I've often wondered where my imagination went. As a child, I had a fabulously creative side. As an adult, I feel like my imagination and creativity dried up like Lake Allatoona in this summer's terrible drought. I have to work at it nowadays, and I have seen some of it come back, but not like it was. What happened? I think well-meaning teachers and adults taught me that I must be practical, and with all that practicality, the creativity within me withered. I don't want that to happen to Kathryn!

So what about all this free play I've been allowing? Is this slacking off from what is important? After much thought & prayer, I've realized that this is, as Martha Stewart would say, a good thing. We still do our readings, math, Bible lessons, and handwriting. But the other stuff can wait. There will be rainy days, and plenty of time in the hot summer when we can catch up on all of that. For now, I must try my best not to stifle the joys of play. Even in this, she is learning about nature, learning about God and his creation, and developing the precious gift of imagination--things that no textbook can teach.

14 September 2008

Sneaky Narration

girl reading
"Narrating is an art, like poetry-making or painting, because it is there, in every child's mind, waiting to be discovered, and is not the result of any process of disciplinary education."

~ Charlotte Mason on The Art of Narrating


Kathryn is one smart cookie, and she is a voracious reader. She has an excellent memory, too--when she chooses to use it. Even before she could read, she had several books, like Dr. Seuss's "ABC's" memorized so well that people thought she really was reading fluently at the age of three. She's also quite a talker--just like me. So when we began doing narration, I thought it would be a breeze. I was wrong.

Usually, explaining things to Kathryn works really well for her, and while I don't expect her to think or act like an adult, I don't "dumb things down" for her either. So before we began doing narration last year, we talked about what narration is. After our readings, I asked for her to narrate a little. My brilliant child just stared at me, and said she didn't remember anything about the story. With multiple prompts, she did "tell back" a little, but it felt like pulling teeth. We were both frustrated. That's how it went for a while. Anytime I'd mention narration, she'd clam up.

Eventually I changed tactics and began asking for narration in sneaky ways, going under her little narration radar. I'd wait til much later, while we were on our way to the store or something, and then ask about something she had read, or pretend I'd forgotten something about one of our readings, and most of the time she'd do great! Or at supper, I'd ask her to tell Ken something specific we'd read or done that day. Once she'd gotten better about doing it this way, I started telling her--after the fact--that she'd just done a great narration. Now sometimes she'll even tell me, "That was a little narrating right there, wasn't it?"

I think her perfectionism was getting in the way of narrating because she thought she'd have to tell me everything and she knew she couldn't remember it all. Another way I worked around that is to have her tell me just three things about each chapter she'd read in her free reading books. She often went on to tell me more and do a fabulous narration, but knowing she only had to come up with three facts freed her from thinking she couldn't do a good job. Three was reasonable, and she knew she could do that. I think it helped her realize that narration didn't mean parroting back the entire story.

Recently, Kathryn began her own blog. I think blogging is really just fancy-schmancy, high-tech form of narrating. We've set quite a few rules about her blog, in how I monitor it and so on, but having a blog makes Kathryn feel very grown up; I'm using that motivation for more narrating, and moving into the related territory of composition. We decided that for every field trip we go on, Kathryn will blog about it, and I'm encouraging her to do a brief entry about each free reading book she finishes as well. So far it's going really well.

" ... For children under nine, the question of composition resolves itself into that of narration, varied by some such simple exercise as to write a part and narrate a part, or write the whole account of a walk they have taken, a lesson they have studied, or of some simple matter that they know. Before they are ten, children who have been in the habit of using books will write good, vigorous English with ease and freedom; that is, if they have not been hampered by instructions."
I believe Charlotte Mason was very forward-thinking, and ahead of her time; I think she would have approved of utilizing technology--like blogging--for new ways of teaching, as long as we don't abandon the tried-and-true methods along the way.

06 September 2008

Anne of Green Gables

cast photo

Last night, we were in Canada... specifically, in Avonlea, home of Anne Shirley. Ken, Kathryn, and I were all in the play "Anne of Green Gables" as part of a drama troupe comprised almost entirely of homeschoolers. We performed in a nearby "black box" theater. I had no idea what a black box theater was until we began rehearsals for this play; it's a smaller, more intimate theater with stadium-type seating, so that the seats are higher than the stage. Actually, there is no stage; the performance happens on floor level. The walls, floor, and curtains are all black, so when the lights go out it is a very dark black box!

Kathryn as Minnie MaeWe've worked with this group before. The first play we did with Ms. Tisha (the director) was a Christmas play at our previous church in 2006. As part of a group of toys that come to life in the story, Kathryn played a bride doll, and Ken and I were a retro "Date Night Barbie & Ken", complete with our own Barbie box. When we came to life, we did a little swing-dance to the song "Rockin' Around the Christmas Tree," but we only had a few lines just prior to our dance. It was fun, and that was Kathryn's first speaking part in a play. The following summer, Kathryn had a small part in a Mystery Dinner Theater comedy play. Most of the kids in these dramas are teens, but Ms. Tisha always includes some of the little ones as well.

This time, Kathryn played Minnie Mae, and besides having a few lines in a scene, she also recited a poem (beautifully, I might add!!!), and did a little dance with four other little girls. They were adorable, and actually remembered their dance steps even though we didn't have a chance to practice that part nearly enough... I was in charge of helping them learn that. {smile}

Ken played Mr. Phillips;Ken as Mr. Phillips with old-fashioned wire-rimmed glasses, a bow-tie, and his hair parted in the middle, he looked appropriately nerdy. Most of the kids already knew "Mr. Ken" from homeschool classes we've taught and from his doing lights and sound for "The Sound of Music" last winter; when he showed up in costume, they all had the giggles. {hee hee!} He's such a nice, calm guy that he had trouble in rehearsals sounding mean enough when we was suppose to yell at Anne, but in the actual play, he pulled it off and made the yelling seem real enough. Besides Ken and me, my good friend Angela was the only other adult in the play; she played the storekeeper Alice Lawson. All the key roles were filled by teens, and I don't think I'm being biased when I say they all did a fabulous job! Drew, a quiet boy with rock-star hair, played Matthew Cuthbert, and he wasn't sure he could manage the dying scene; when he came backstage after that scene he was so proud of himself. Seeing kids like Drew realize they could stretch themselves beyond what they thought possible was so encouraging and uplifting, and blessed my soul.

Jamie as Miss StacyI played Miss Stacy, the kind teacher who comes to Avonlea after Mr. Phillips is fired. {hee hee!} She and Anne are "kindred spirits." I had to learn to laugh on cue for the scene when Anne almost feeds me dead-mouse-flavored plum pudding. In reading the book and watching the movie, I've decided that Miss Stacy must've been a fan of the Charlotte Mason style of teaching: she gets the school children outdoors as often as possible for exercise, as well as nature study; they go on frequent nature walks, and spend time drawing; she encourages them to read good literature; and her main goal is to teach them to think for themselves. She tells the children, "I believe the best teacher serves as a guide, and if you are willing to put yourself under my guidance, I shall do my utmost to help you form strong ideals that will be the foundation of your future lives."

We had so much fun with this! It was a lot of hard work, especially for Ken who had many "hats" to wear for this: he played Mr. Phillips, but he was also production manager, cast photographer, and more! And it was later-than-usual bedtimes for Kathryn part of the week with evening rehearsals and especially the night of the play. But we feel honored to have been part of this great cast!

09 July 2008

Masterly Inactivity

fishing

It’s hot outside, and summer is in full swing. For me, summer has always brought to mind vacations at the beach, lazy days at the lake, and a break from school. In other words, relaxation! One of the many reasons I love Charlotte Mason is her emphasis on the importance of leisure time. “Masterly inactivity,” as she called it, is meant to be time spent doing something to refresh mind, body, and soul. It is recreation at its finest: fun, unscheduled, unstructured time to enjoy life and appreciate the wonders of God. . .

Read the rest of the article here in this month's edition of "The Heart of the Matter"online homeschool magazine.

18 April 2008

Why Charlotte Mason?

So, why have I chosen a Charlotte Mason style of homeschooling? Here are just a few of her main principles that are big reasons I chose this method (here is the page I took this from, and thank you to Ambleside for providing so much free information!):
  • Children learn from real things in the real world! We use the opportunities in the environment children already live in to educate them.
  • Childrens' minds are fully capable of digesting real knowledge, so we provide a rich, generous curriculum that exposes children to many interesting, living ideas and concepts.
  • Children have minds capable of making their own connections with knowledge and experiences, so we make sure children learn about nature, science and art, that they know how to make things (handicraft fun!), that they read many living books, and that they are physically fit.
  • In devising a curriculum, we provide a vast amount of ideas to ensure that the mind has enough brain food, knowledge about a variety of things to prevent boredom, and subjects are taught with high-quality literary language since that is what a child's attention responds to best.

    And here is the BIGGIE...

  • We allow no separation to grow up between the intellectual and spiritual life of children, but teach them that the God is their Continual Helper in all the interests, duties and joys of life. There is unity among both secular and divine subjects because both are of God and, whatever children study or do, God is always with them.
If you'd like to learn more about Charlotte Mason, here are a couple of good links to explore:
Summaries of the CM Series
Who was Charlotte Mason?

There are a lot of great methods of homeschooling, but CM's method is exactly what I was looking for, and I love it! I wish this was how I was taught, and I have so much fun learning along side Kathryn. That's one of the greatest things about homeschooling!!! Learning is fun! I pray every day to be given wisdom in teaching Kathryn, and for her to have a teachable spirit, but I also pray for MYSELF to have a teachable spirit and a never-ending thirst for knowledge about the One who made me and about everything in this world He made!!! In my Handbook of Nature Study (a very CM style book!), I found this wonderful quote about having a thirst for knowledge:
"After all, what is the chief sign of growing old? Is it not the feeling that we know all there is to be known? It is not years which make people old; it is ruts, and a limitation of interests... It is rejuvenation for the teacher, thus growing old... to go out with her youngest pupil and reverently watch with him the miracle of the blossoming violet and and say: 'Dear Nature, I know naught of the wondrous life of these, your smallest creatures. Teach me!' and she will suddenly find herself young."
Many articles are written to address the issue of how to stay young, and here we’ve found the answer: just keep learning! For those of us who homeschool, it ought to be easy if we just keep our hearts teachable and learn right alongside our children. I’m off to see what God wants me to learn today -- how ‘bout you?

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